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[quote=Anonymous]I worry that if we get the lawyers involved, there really is no going back. I know he will make it difficult. And as for preparing to set things up, he is very knowledgeable with divorce law. His family all went through contentious divorces, and I have no doubt, Id be up for a fight should I choose to fight it. I need him to be a good father to my kids so I am really doing my best to see what is good for us. Thank you for the advice to seek therapy for myself. Im working on it. I dont know healthy relationships— this is probably the healthiest I have had which is why I married him. Part of me is scared to be alone. And I know that makes me vulnerable.

We are very codependent— he is dependent on me for money and I am dependent on him for support. He is miserable and a little depressed especially with covid lockdown, which is why I think everything escalates. But he has already told me he cant see a way out of this, that he would just be staying for the kids. I honestly dont know if that is BS.

We are both right fighters, which is why the therapists shake their heads. We dont really get awesome ones because we rely on what insurance pays. When we first had problems, our conclusion was that we hated counselling so much we ought to do our best not to need it. Just really tired. [/quote]

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