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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds to me like you want a divorce. If you've been talking about it for two years and he's been threatening you with intentionally hiring an expensive attorney, that just sounds nasty. On the other hand, I guess I'd ask WHY can't you occasionally binge watch tv shows all weekend? Or one day? Why can't you eat doritos for dinner once in a while? Not specifically, but my point is just that it sounds like you feel he wants to have fun and you're angry about that--maybe because you feel like he gets to have fun at the expense of your work. But I think there's a middle ground there. It does sound like there's a lot of yours and mine in this relationship, especially financially, that I don't think is super healthy. But boats are an expensive hobby. Legos...not so much. Maybe it doesn't matter and you guys are so far gone that there's no working through this. In that case, I don't really understand the "grow up" comment. Yes. You have kids. You would have to make the sacrifice not to see them ALL the time, but you might be less stressed out and happier since you don't have to deal with someone you obviously don't like being with anymore. I guess it's a trade off. It sounds like you would be okay financially. So, it's really about what you think would make you happier in the long run. I think your kids will be okay as long as you can both be good co-parents. [/quote]

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