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[quote=Anonymous]That sex can be amazing, men that can make me feel beautiful, that I'm still attractive and desirable. Also learned that there are tons of men who want one-night stands and tons that want to get married ASAP, but not a whole lot that are cool enjoying the "now" and dating.

That I'm deeply damaged after being blindsided by my ex's affair.... that when I'm not with my partner, I don't call or initiate contact because I assume they are with someone else even if there is absolutely no reason to believe that. That I have a Berlin wall around my heart, and have panic attacks if they seem distant, because it triggers the memory if my ex withdrawing from me and gaslighting me about his affair.

That I really enjoy dating and don't ever want to get married again. I want a partner I can have fun with and hang out with and travel with, but I don't want to live with him or do his damn laundry or carry all the invisible burden of planning holidays and social events for him. [/quote]

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