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[quote=Anonymous]Decide what relationship you want with your sister— distant and cordial is just fine. Then have that relationship. You do not need to be with her all the time. If your parents object, say calmly that, as they know, your sister has been vindictive toward you and you think that a healthy adult relationship needs good boundaries. Are your parents saying she’s jealous of a particular thing or issue? Because frankly if you’re their responsible/successful child and she’s a disaster they’re enabling, I would have a more candid discussion about what their expectations later in life are, and make clear that you don’t intend to be abused by your sister in an ongoing way, and that they may want to make plans for her to be their primary caregiver if they’re going to enable that.[/quote]
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