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[quote=Anonymous]OP I have a sister with a personality disorder. My parents have excused her bat shit crazy and vindictive behavior her whole life because she had a really high IQ. When teachers said she was condescending and belittling they figured it was because the teacher was dumb and intimidated. When she was cruel to me growing up they just said "that's what big sisters do" or they ignored it. When her significant other relationships went up in flames it was always the other person's fault. When she had trouble at work, she was the victim.

Here's the kicker, I didn't try to involve my parents in adulthood. I simply distanced myself. She complained to mommy and mommy and mommy exploded. She did some surprisingly cruel things after that and I stopped responding to emails or calls. She told mommy and mommy exploded and sent me abusive emails and calls. I calmly asked my mother why she is inserting herself into this and she went on a rampage about how cruel I am and how horrible my husband and kids are for not getting sucked in so I stepped back some from mom too. Keep in mind, even my mother clashed with sissy at one point and was estranged for a period of time. Through therapy I have learned my family is bat shit crazy and I have a right to set boundaries, so I do. I also just don't engage at all with my sister.[/quote]

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