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[quote=Anonymous] I'm of two minds here -- I am also an asian person who married into a white family and sometimes have to visit his european home country where i am the only person who looks like me for miles and miles and miles. His family is always warm so that is really not an issue. So i sypmathize with the person who said your SIL needs to be more open. however, some of the clues you are giving us make it seem like SIL might have a point. Why would you only visit places that are overwhelmingly white, and think that urban areas are "not possible"? I've visited urban areas with my kids at all their ages. It seems like you may be stuck in a white, UMC way of thinking and that she actually is on to something... I would keep communicating with her with an open mind. [/quote]
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