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[quote=Anonymous]I get how you feel, I really do.

You are having anticipatory empty nest (sad just about how it will be when it begins). A week more with her seems precious right now.

BUT, this is the beginning of her next phase of life. She will get invites that don't include you and sometimes she will prefer them. It can hurt your feelings.

She might always be your first choice of who to hang out with, but you/her family of origina won't always be hers. 
Accepting that reality is one of the painful parts of parenting.

(But what you are experiencing is normal, if you are close to your child. And her growth away is also normal. )

I think you can be honest with her, that you were surprised and little sad, that your summer/time with her will be shorter than you expected. But you know that she wants to spend time with friends this summer also , so you guys will support whatever she decides. And mean it (no guilt). A lot of good parenting is putting them first.

You will be surprised how much they come home, during the college year. And plan for parent's weekend, if she welcomes your visit. [/quote]

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