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1. I would not go, as the nation will be firmly in the grip of Delta  this fall.

2. But where it not for the pandemic, [b]I would just ask if they accept a plus one, and note that it's fine if they refuse. If they refuse, he can join you on the non-wedding times. [/b]No hurt feelings on either side.[/quote]

Oh my god, OP do NOT do the bolded!  That would be incredibly rude and tacky. The appropriate thing to do is spend the weekend with the other invited wedding guests.  Take two extra days AFTER the wedding is over, have your boyfriend fly out to join you AFTER all the wedding festivities are over and explore THEN. [/quote]

Do you realize you “sound” hysterical and angry? There is no call for such a strongly worded post.[/quote]

The PP does  not sound "hysterical."  Poster is absolutely right!  Manners and politeness and the rules of such have gotten diminished in recent generations.  Grown adults in society should not even approach this possibility of asking for a +1 to such an event.  It's simply rude and impolite - a big no no!  Manners may seem stupid to the younger generations - but they are so very very important.  I think it is often the people who think it is ok to ask such things are the same people who have never organized and paid for a wedding or any other large event.  They've never been in the position of hosting and most likely never will.[/quote]

You both sound "a little off" since we're scare quoting everything to make ourselves feel witty. OP never even suggested asking for another invite so to go off the rails attacking like this is pretty out there. [/quote]

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