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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry to hear about your situation.  This is pretty basic, but have you sat him down and told him exactly how these comments about your body make you feel?  I'm not sure how other posters get to the conclusion that "he doesn't love you" because, of course, neither of you have to stay in the marriage or be faithful to each other, and it sounds like you both are.  I tend to shy away from conflict, so I know this will be hard, but I think you need to tell him so clearly that he can't possibly misunderstand how you feel when he says these things.  Then, if he keeps saying them and disregards your feelings, you will know what is important (or not) to him and can decide what you want to do about it and whether you want a divorce.  Good luck![/quote]

I did not sit him down, but I make it pretty clear that I do not appreciate his comments every time he makes them. I also told him plenty of times that I do not workout with the specific goal to grow my traps or any other muscle, but because I simply love doing it and because it helps my mental health. So I would think he knows already I am sensitive to these comments, yet it does not prevent him from continuing to make them. I think I am already at a point when I need to put my foot down and tell him in no uncertain terms that I am out if he does not stop.[/quote]

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