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[quote=Anonymous]You're not the jerk. But I would think about if there were any circumstances where you would be okay with it. What if he hires a night nanny and arranges daytime childcare? What if when he gets back he takes the toddler for a couple of days and your mom/dad/sibling comes to help you with the baby? If there are no circumstances where you'd be okay with it then you are right to stand up for yourself, but personally I would be okay with it if my mom was staying with me for company/emotional support, DH arranged for the cleaners to come while he was away and we budgeted for a weekend of takeout, and the older DC had daytime childcare (babysitter, daycare).[/quote]
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