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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]How do you know your kid is not speaking to the other kid? Have you witnessed it? Has he told you? Have you asked if something else happened? Maybe this other kid said something (unkind, at the least) to your kid about the incident and DS's reaction is to that rather than the dads' behavior at the game. And yes, this whole situation would have been avoided had your DH kept quiet. It took my DH about 10 years to learn to quiet down at games, just in time for our kids to be done playing. Regardless of the rest of the situation, your kid does NOT want to hear his dad complaining from the sidelines. [/quote] I've witnessed it, asked my son why, and he said he didn't like the kid because his dad threatened to punch DH. While I have expressed to DH that I disagree with him saying anything at soccer games about calls, at the end of the day, he's a grown man and responsible for himself. [/quote] Haha lol no. Your Husband is -at the end of the day - responsible for his wife and his child and should stfu [/quote] Right?? That is trite and true enabling language right there. Your husband is not only responsible for himself, his actions make him responsible for all of your safety, as well. Your husband without a doubt instigated this entire scenario... you all can blame it on the "psycho" dad as much as you want, but if her husband didn't loudly object to the ref, none of this would have happened. Your husband wrote a check that his ass couldn't cash... and whether your son admits it or not, he's embarrassed by that just as much as he is by his dad loud objection towards the ref. Show your husband some YouTube videos of other dads "stating" their objections at youth games -- show him what he looks like. [/quote]
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