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[quote=Anonymous]PP here - if he makes the car payment is your name also on the title? It looks like he pays for a life that would be very easy to separate from you and the baby if the car and house are his. Putting in "less" financially, emotionally, timewise, etc can reflect investment, I learned the hard way. People who are minimally invested find it easy to disconnect. If I were you I'd look into un-mommy tracking since I think he is going to end up splitting. He isn't really in the family in an invested way and kids get more demanding in the toddler years.

Did he have a difficult childhood? Is his family happy and close? Did his dad bail on him? I think he has issues with intimacy that are going to blow up in your face, there is way too much distance here. Sadly I speak from experience. Not wanting to share childcare and baby costs is a huge red flag that he is not committed to the family. Seriously, if you and the baby departed he'd only have to change 2 utilities, that is messed up. [/quote]

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