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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]So now I don't feel comfortable leaving the house anymore with DD in DH's care. And if we split, I have to worry about her safety even more. I feel so terribly guilty that I've given our toddler this life. [b]She is so perfect and I really messed up. [/b][/quote]

Oh, OP, my heart broke for you when I read this. You have NOT messed up. I’m glad you are giving Al-Anon a go, and it sounds like you found a good group.

You can deal with this. I know I’m just an anonymous, random person, but I have so much faith in you.[/quote]

This is OP, thank you for saying this. I tend to be hard on myself and I am nauseous thinking I made the world’s biggest mistake, but it’s confusing because my daughter is the best thing to ever happen to me.[b] I want to believe that if this marriage does not work out, it was still a good decision because I got my wonderful daughter, and if I’d married someone else I wouldn’t have had her. [/b]I’m a mess right now, clearly.[/quote]

PP again. My mom divorced my dad when I was very young, around 4. He was very charming, but also awful with money (and probably had a drinking problem, too, I realized when I got older). But she ALWAYS said she never regretted marrying my dad because she got me out of the deal. My parents getting divorced when I was so young was definitely the best thing for me and my mom, but I know every family is different.

I think your daughter will always know how much you love her, because you strike me as the kind of parent who will make [i]sure [/i]she knows, through your actions and your words. [/quote]

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