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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is that something you can forgive and/or forget?
We have other issues , and he said[b] he said it out of anger to hurt me, [/b]but is that something you can erase from your memory?[/quote]

You buried the lede. The problem isn't that he *puts himself first, the problem is he intended to hurt you and succeeded.

*We are born alone and we will die alone. We live our lives and, hopefully, we enjoy great experiences and give and receive love. But, when it comes down to it, no one will give a f#ck about you as much as you yourself. No one gives a rip about your inner world...your feelings and desires are yours alone. Your dh may struggle with depression, anxiety or general existential crises. Is he highly intelligent? I know of what I write. I became much more content, caring and involved in others' lives when I accepted the aforementioned reality that I truly am on my own in life, so I better look out for myself first. A happy offshoot to that is that I'm more caring and attentive to my family and friends because I don't want them to feel my angst. That being said, I put myself first.[/quote]

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