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[quote=Anonymous]It is often used by people who are nervous and not calm themselves! IME, mostly by husbands to wives, but then they are protecting and they are actually a nervous wreck! Yes, it is gaslighting. However, telling someone to stop being nuts, in some way can be productive. I once stopped my utterly off his rocker DH to stop talking and move away. He was trying to shove the range into our Suburban. It was not going in all the way. All he did was push, push, push, and started being a nervous mess with no thinking skills. I looked and saw that something was blocking it. As I was to move it, he told me to step aside and move away in that nasty rude tone, like mansplaining! So, I told him, in front of his dad, to shut the eff up, and move away. Guess who got a large range into the car at all of her 107lbs? On that one try? Effing asshole.[/quote]
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