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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let me guess, the daughter of your parents’ friends saw your husband someplace and then randomly texted him to say she was separated?  I’d not be ok with this. I’d tell your husband to block her, you need to protect your marriage.  If it comes up, tell your parents what happened. 
You all might be friends in a couple years.. life is long.  I wouldn’t “say anything” what exactly would you say, and who would you say it to?  You aren’t the pool lifeguard who needs to “say something” to the kid that keeps running on the pool deck. 
You do need to make sure your marriage remains healthy and shutting down nonsense like a chick texting your husband (not you, but your husband) is one way to keep your marriage good.

I’m assuming that your husband isn’t a Cub Scout leader and would have contact with her kid and this wasn’t said as “hey if Billy seems out of sorts, this is why”. 
Even if it was, this sort of thing is best handled between same sex people mom to mom, dad to dad, or in a group chat.

Many friendships and romances start over sympathy and common interests.  It’s way too easy for your husband to become closer then you’d like with this woman because “it’s only texting”.  Trust me, you won’t want that. If she wants male comfort, she can find another guy. [/quote]

This is a family friend of her DH's. You are insane. [/quote]

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