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[quote=Anonymous]I used to share everything with my friends and then I found out a group of people I had trusted were talking a ton of (false) smack about me behind my back. Stuff like saying my marriage was on the rocks because I’d told a friend about a fight I’d had with my DH, or people talking about how we were broke because I’d mentioned that we’d discussed moving to a lower COL area. Just ridiculous gossip based on what I’d thought was really run of the mill stuff in our lives. It was hurtful and embarrassing because I was so sad to learn how many people had gleefully shared these false rumors. So now if donrr we one asks how things are going, I always say “great!” and change the subject. I have a couple close friends who are not part of a friend group I feel I can confide in, plus I talk to my DH and a therapist. Everyone else is strictly need to know. Op, sounds like your cousin understands something important about people that you have yet to learn.[/quote]
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