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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Friends want to visit. All but one are vaccinated (child under 12).

We have a child under 12, too.

Our home has one guest room.

Would it be rude to suggest they get hotel room?

We can host meals, hanging out at our house.

They want to use our community amenities ( pool, etc).

My husband and I are at odds with this.

Thanks[/quote]

Your dh sounds like me...6 extra people in the house with 1 guest room? Hard no. I can't do that many people in my house, and unless you live somewhere where there is a guest wing or poolside guest house, it would always be a hard no. I can see where he's coming from, on top of the bad last stay. You need to understand his feelings. And just say "Oh gosh we want to see you (if that is the case for you), but we just don't have the room here.". 
Being on the side of my dh wanting his family to come visit last year during the pandemic (June), I was a hard no, and he just kept pushing and pushing and said "But they already planned to come and I can't say no", I still have really hard feelings about this. [/quote]

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