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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For how long? How many bathrooms? Have they stayed before and did they generally seem to understand boundaries? [/quote]

We are in a different house (smaller now). Not good with boundaries,  kids do what they want, don't help.  Parents drink. They think we are rich and make themselves at home.[/quote]

Seems like your husband wants them to stay with you, and you don’t.   I’d push for an AirBnB or hotel, but if they persist and your husband gives in, I suggest you make it clear to him he’s in charge of hosting and you’re just there to be polite.

I get roped into this stuff by my H who underestimates the amount of work involved in something like this, I try to let him handle it, but it’s hard.

Also, if 5 of them are over the age of 12, these aren’t little kids who don’t need much space to sleep/won’t take forever in the bathroom/will wake up early enough to not be in the way in the morning — it’ll be awful to have them in your living room unless you have a basement you can bunk them in…[/quote]

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