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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Congrats on leaving a bad marriage and NOT having kids that will suffer coparenting with that man! Your life is ahead of you, I promise. I had no money, no job, and a kid, and I made it through. You will too. [/quote] Unless she waits too long and misses her opportunity to have a family. Then she will regret that choice. Women often regret the men, but rarely the children. Don't let some nitwit mess with your family planning. Sadly I know a few women who did and are sorry today. No kids or grand-kids.[/quote] I regret not getting out before kids like I was planning to. Kids to me are tied to the man. I do regret having kids. I did not want them with my exH and knew it. He figured out a way to make it happen anyway when I was weak and would not take no for an answer. Second same thing (refused to use birth control...it had been years). OP is young and a divorce without kids is a true fresh start. I would turn back the clock and not have kids if I could have gotten out of the marriage early like I wanted to...[/quote]
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