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[quote=Anonymous]I left an abusive marriage at 32 and I felt like my life was over, not worth living, like I'd lived my best years and would just wallow around for the next 60 or so.

But that was part of the abuse - no one would want me, I was nothing, I was lucky to have him. All lies and just part of how domestic violence and coercive control work.

Sometime after I saw a 76 & 80 year old couple marry 😍. And I thought well there's always that!

My healing was long but absolutely my life is worth living just for me and I sometimes think about finding a partner but am also quite happy on my own.

Nothing is ever a waste and one day you will know that. Try to stay in the here and now. The past is the past and the future isn't real. Right now, this very moment you are reaching out for some care and support and that seems pretty damn awesome to me. You will get through this. One day or week at a time, you just don't know what comes next so learn to enjoy your now and you will be okay. Lots of love.

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