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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. We are not married but we’re in a very serious, committed relationship. It’s much more solid than my actual marriage was. We’re planning to stay together the rest of our lives so, unlike the other OP, I do consider his kids family and vice versa.[/quote] You may be in a serious and committed relationship, but your separate finances speak otherwise. Yeah I know some married people maintain separate finances, but in their case, they have the legal protection of the marriage. You have nothing. Emotionally, you've heavily invested in this relationship. But legally, there's no protection for or obligation to you. I do think you need to broach the subject with him though, to find out where he stands. Not with expectations, but to find out how you should plan for your child's future and go from there. [/quote] Not to mention, what she's going to do for her own future (retirement and if he passes away). She has no entitlement to inherit from him, and they don't own any joint property. [/quote]
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