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[quote=Anonymous]Wow that is a big difference in how you were treated! I find it odd that PPs are trying to come up with an explanation for it. It’s possible there is an explanation but it’s likely it was just unfair. And I do think that parents should try to be as fair as they can to kids. This would bum me out not because of the money but because of being treated differently. But of course life isn’t fair and parents make mistakes and that’s okay. I would do some CBT exercises about this and I’m sure I’d get over it. Once when I was a teenager I asked my dad why he spend so much more time with my siblings and so much more money on them. He said “well have you heard the phrase ‘the squeaky wheel gets the grease?’” I don’t think that was okay of him to do, much less tell me that he wasn’t giving me attention because I was doing okay in life, but I do know that his heart was in the right place and that he loves me. And that’s what really matters. [/quote]
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