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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]21:04- safety isn't really a factor [b]if your kid is never alone with anyone[/b] and they don't have access outside of you. I'd never leave my daughter with someone I was dating casually. But having her meet them at a group dinner? Sure, why not? My daughter has met four guys I've dated in 13 years. The first two, she was too young to know the difference. One she met in a group and had no idea I was dating him. The current one has met her briefly, twice. I keep them separate for the most part. If the relationship seems to lead toward marriage, they'll spend more time together. [/quote]

If you are dating these men casually you don't know them well enough to know how they move.  If they would try to get at your daughter when you aren't around and she'd think it's okay to go with them because he's your friend that you met.[/quote]

Reading comprehension fail, PP. This person clearly said safety isn't a factor if you never leave your kid alone with that person. Your statement implies that the hypothetical DD shouldn't meet any of her mom's acquaintances, because they could just as easily be predators. I would assume this would go for married people too - any 'friend' is suspect in your mind. I suspect that you just like to feel like you're superior to single moms. [/quote]

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