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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I think it got lost in my original post that she asked me to meet with her.

She then wrote last week that she “looks forward to talking”. Did she just feel she had to say that?

I don’t usually ask her to watch my kids (this one day was a favor and I’d hoped she knew was free to say no). The challenge I’m having (compared to past au pairs) is our kids (9) tend to walk to each other’s houses / have play dates. The last au pair liked having my DD over and thought it made it easier. This one I think does not and I hadn’t realized that. So she’d go over a lot and I didn’t know it was a problem.

I’ll back off / stay silent for now. I’m just very confused since she raised having a meeting and followed up initially and since has dropped it. It’s hard...we were both at school pickup yesterday and I got my kid and she got hers [quote]and my DD was wondering why we didn’t walk together / say hi etc.[/quote] [/quote]

You can tell your DD that it is because her mom has lost her mind and all sense of boundaries.  [/quote]
+1 This is a bit harsh but accurate OP.  Why are you continuing to write someone who doesn't write you back?  Go on care.com and get a sitter of your own.[/quote]

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