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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your DH isn’t ADHD. He’s BPD or even NPD (treating you like an object, wtf). The explosive rage is classics BPD. Criticism and splitting etc.

Your DS may have genetic factors for ADHD, but his BPD rage is learned at his father knee.

Definitely divorce and re-marry better to provide better role model stat.

Hopefully he’s wealthy enough a divorce won’t be a huge hiccup. I’m guessing you didn’t date long before marriage and he love bombed you up to “I do”?[/quote]

What's BPD?  Can you describe?[/quote]

Borderline Personality Disorder. Read Walking on Egg Shells[/quote]

My spouse is ASD and Bipolar (the rages).  I disassociate from him, so everything and once the kids were in school fulltime upgraded jobs. Work and my kids save my sanity. My spouse is a deadweight and usually has a temper tantrum about what little he is asked to do and forgets to do for the family.  Once the kids were each in grade 2 they saw completely through him.  I may still divorce since the bad days are truly a nightmare when he rages.

Kathy Marshack group online is helpful for NTs living with ASD spouses. [/quote]

Yes! Also AANE. High recommend. I like them way more than Kathy's set up which is pretty random and hard to track. [/quote]

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