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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No it’s not okay to yell at anybody.

I do yell, rarely like Go out side my house or yell on my balcony to let out anger. Or drive in my car and yell when I m alone.  But not to anybody especially my family. They are not punching sand bag. [/quote]

Getting angry or yelling at someone does not make them your punching sand bag.  
Yes.  Yelling at your family because you are frustrated with work is unacceptable and treating your family like punching bags.  However, getting angry and even yelling at your spouse because they spent a lot of money you don’t have or put your child in physical danger is perfectly normal, and it is not treating anyone like a punching bag.  In fact, I would say that letting your spouse off the hook and releasing your anger into the car is you letting yourself be treated like a punching bag.
If you are angry about something, then you *should* get angry and even yell (depending on the exact situation) at the person who is responsible for whatever upset you.

Good for you, OP, to have husband who is going to stand up for your family if someone tries to take advantage of you.  It sounds like you are too meek and mild to do it yourself.  I’m glad you found this man.  
If it bothers you when he is angry at someone, then go for a walk.  [/quote]

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