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[quote=Anonymous]We were ambivalent about it. I have loved every moment of being a mom, but really did not want to go through the baby years again and sleepless nights. There are also specific health risks for me with another pregnancy.

At the same time I knew we would never regret another child and would love having them in our lives in future years, and this would be priceless.

We would have loved a sibling for our child though at the same time recognize some siblings are not close.

Finances would have been tighter but we could have afforded it, and would have just made the 12 weeks paid parental leave for federal employees, for each of us. We didn't have that with our first

I got pregnant, and DH had a scary health problem which fortunately was ok in the end. I had an early miscarriage in the midst of that and felt relieved, esp as pregnancy carries some risks for me and one/both of us needs to be there for our child we already have. At mid-40s and late 30s for me, we just felt done like our family is complete. We have family and friends in areas of the country where a couple our age has kids old enough to be out of the home already as a grown adult, these are people who stayed in the hometown didn't move to DC.

I love our family the way it is and being able to focus all our time, energy, and resources on our one child. I like the older kid years much better than the baby years, as cute as babies are. It is the right decision for us.[/quote]

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