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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They may not be able to reform their cheating ways, but they can nevertheless make loving and supportive spouses and fathers who will always remain committed to their families.  I know one such man, cheated on his fiancee during their years-long courtship and engagement, cheated throughout the marriage, continues to cheat now into his 60s, BUT he is an incredibly supportive husband who loves his family dearly.  That marriage is still going strong after 26 years and thress older children.  The wife (or husband) simply has to be willing and able to put the suspected cheating out of their minds for it to work.[/quote]

This is actually disturbing. Was the fiancé/wife aware of the infidelity and decided to work through it? Do they have some type of agreement? [/quote]

I have no idea.  Though I am friends with the husband and he has been forthcoming about his affairs, he respects a boundary when it comes to discussing his wife.  He loves her and I have never heard him say a critical word about his wife, quite the opposite, he has always sung her praises.   I have not asked whether she knows about his affairs throughout their 36 years (marriage plus dating and engagement) , but she must suspect something,  how could she not?  If so, she has put those feelings aside and decided that the benefits of this otherwise good man far outweigh his weaknesses.[/quote]

Just FYI, your friend is a sociopath.

Also, you state that you have "no idea", yet you go on to make an assumption that the wife has put her feelings "aside" and "decided that the benefits of this otherwise good man far outweigh his weaknesses"? WTAF?

Your posts are bonkers.
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Maybe she’s the AP.[/quote]

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