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[quote=Anonymous]It's really hard to deal with this... I've been NC for about 2 years now. Most people think my mom is an amazing person and clearly I must be the one with the problem (even my siblings, her flying monkeys). But the few people she's let her guard down around know exactly what I'm dealing with, including my husband, a few relatives and some of my close friends that I grew up with. It's easy to suggest that I should just stop caring about what other people think, and I really want to do that, but it's hard when she uses her image to actively try and get people to reach out to me and get me to talk to her again. She's reached out to some of my friends, relatives, clergy, neighbors....anyone she can tell her "woe is me" story to and then get them to reason with me on her behalf. Most people turn her down and don't want to get involved but some people do take the bait. It's exhausting and really crosses the line. She's even had people get their kids to message my kids...although I'm pretty sure those young kids weren't writing those messages by themselves or perhaps at all. I'm just hoping she gets bored with this tactic and stops at some point in the near future.[/quote]
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