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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=jsmith123]I believe they do understand.  But they lack the ability to control their impulses.
 
This is where discipline comes in, but in the sense of discipline as "teaching", versus discipline as punishment.

Example: You need to teach your child that she cannot throw sand at the park.  The first time she does it, you hold her hand and gently say: "You cannot throw sand at the park".

Your 2 year old understands this completely.  And now it's her job to see if you mean it.

So she throws more sand.  And you calmly say: "Uh oh, it's not okay to throw sand at the park.  We need to leave now."

And then you leave.  Your DD may cry, pout, tantrum, promise to do better with another try etc, and you shouldn't listen to any of it.  You should take her home.

You teach her there are rules.  You teach her they apply to her.  You teach her that you mean what you say.  And you do it in the spirit of being gentle and helping her learn, not in the spirit of anger and punishment.[/quote]

My 2 yo would definitely not understand that we were leaving the park because of the sand throwing. [/quote]

My 2 year would understand. When we are out of the park and I ask her, why did we have to leave? she would say, because I threw sand. My problem is, that doesn’t stop her from doing it again and again and again and.....even if it’s the same consequences every time.[/quote]

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