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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread is freaking me out. I’m on a business trip and wife just sent me a video. So scared like is next year the year it stops? Or is dcum full of losers and weirdos? I hope the latter but I am scared [/quote]

How old are you? [b]If you are 40s and on first marriage then you are in the lucky minority. If you are 30s and married less than 10 years, enjoy it while it lasts. Most couples are down to duty sex once a week by mid 40s, which is why the divorces really start in middle schoo[/b]l[/quote

DP. Classic DCUM! "Most couples" -- yes, this PP has done extensive and scientifically sound research, so is entitled to pontificate about what "most" couples experience. Such a good example of projecting one's own problems onto everyone else in the world.

To the freaked out PP above, ignore this kind of "here is what most couples experience" nonsense. This stuff is completely individual. Your wife is not on some kind of predictable timer set to go off and end your sex life at a specific moment. Good grief.

If you want her libido to stay high, well, practice, practice, practice. Tell her what you want and ask what SHE wants. Keep it fresh and keep it between you two. And saying you're 'freaked out" and "scared" is...kind of dramatic, considering she just sent you a video (we all are assuming you mean a sex video to keep you happy while you're away--?). If you actually communicate with her about sex you'll find it's not some kind of automatic given that her sex drive will just "plummet" at some point. Yes, hormones change, kids change the ability to have sex whenever/wherever, life intrudes, etc. If you stay awake to all that you can work through it. Your sex life is something you have to work on actively, not just enjoy until it suddenly ends and it's your wife's fault....

Don't buy into all the dire warnings here from people who claim they know what "most couples" are or aren't doing. [/quote]

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