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[quote=Anonymous]If your SO wanted a good relationship with your ex he should not have had an affair. And the same goes for you. You are paying the price for how you treated your ex. Stop acting like this is for the children. If you didn't want them to be in awkward situations you should not have had an affair! And not resumed with your AP! You are the one who made this awkward and you are trying to blame other people for not lying down and letting you walk all over them. If the children find it awkward, well, that is the price they are paying for your choices. Someday your children may find out what you did (even if nobody actually tells them) and there may be considerable blowback. If they end up feeling like their acceptance of your SO was obtained by withholding the truth, they will feel manipulated and deceived and betrayed by both of you. Think about whether you prefer that they learn the truth from you instead. [/quote]
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