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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can know if a guy isn't ready to be a dad, avoid those guys.

Other than that it's a crapshoot. You can't go by them saying they want to be a dad, or love kids, babysit, camp counselors, teachers, etc

So many people think they want kids and say all those things and when they actually have the kid not so much.[/quote]

Why would you say this?  [b]If a woman said she wanted kids, you would believe her.[/b]  The kind of man who wants to marry at 26 and tell his fiancee he loves and wants kids...likely does.[/quote]

Actually no I wouldn't, so shove your assumptions back into your ass.  OP also asked about a guy, if you want to talk about how to know a woman is ready for kids make that thread. So many people offer stupid advice like if he works with kids, or loves hanging out with his niece and nephew etc,  yeah not so much.

As I said you know who not to have kids with if he's a broke bum, exhibits bum behavior and is immature don't waste your time hoping he will change even if he says he wants kids.

If you're both stable people who want kids go for it, but it;s a crapshoot no guarantees that he will stick around or be a good dad.[/quote]

-1. [b]There is a difference between no guarantees and a crapshoot. [/b] [/quote]

I agree. The man who wants to be with you and wants marriage and family with you will show it to you in his care for you. They stop looking around and they put you first in a mature and sensible way.    Crazy clingy drama queen women, I am not talking about what you expect from men.  I mean that when a young, emotionally mature woman meets the right guy who is also emotionally mature - it is pretty seamless and the communication is very open and indepth. There is also not a lack of chemistry or enthusiasm for wanting every thing with each other.

I find it so odd that women are dragging a reluctant boyfriend's ass over the coals for not proposing, not giving them a ring, not committing, not fixing on a date, dragging the engagement etc. Girl, he is not into you and does not want kids with you. Don't waste your time.

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