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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it depends on what you mean by "mature" into having kids.  A perfectly mature person can want to delay having kids if he is only in his 20s.  He might want to finish a grad program, save for a down payment on a house.  That's totally valid.  [/quote]

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Men who want to marry and have kids start working on becoming good providers by focusing on their education and their careers. They may delay having kids if they are too young, and they have other  goals in front of them. But all actions are towards eventually getting married and  having kids.  If you think that you have to "change their mind" or "trap them" by becoming pregnant, then you will be unhappy because they will be crappy partners and parents.

Also, men who want to marry you and have a family with you, make their intentions very clear.  Once they can support themselves and be financially independent, they want to get married.  They may wait to have babies but usually they don't want to wait to get married.  Even if they are just marrying in the courthouse and spending $100 for a license.

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