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[quote=Anonymous]WOW. Your sister is WAY out of line and I'm so sorry you have had to deal with her insane - yes, insane - vitriol, OP. The original ask, fine, but the reaction is not justifiable in any way at all. I speak as someone who has suffered from infertility (and not secondary infertility either) for years and done six rounds of IVF. Egg retrieval is definitely a significant undertaking, all the required hormones certainly impact your health, it usually requires general anesthesia for the actual retrieval which carries its own risks - and, yes, this is not even getting at all into the emotional ramifications for you which are very, very important and NO ONE has the right to tell you what you feel is 'wrong' or 'selfish' in that respect. You are neither. Your sister, on the other hand, needs to get over herself. If she has so many friends eager to donate, she should take THEM up on it. (I mean, we all know she's lying, but that's her problem.)[/quote]
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