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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you don’t have kids he’ll find a new target after the divorce.

If you do have kids, he will use them as pawns to control you via custody, manipulation, hurt them. You will suffer post-separation abuse, but you can be ready for that.

Mine was a bipolar ASD narc spouse, fully diagnosed when he went in to the test to “show everyone he was perfect and everyone else is nuts.” [/quote]

Best way to deal with this type is to lie and make them think they are perfect and everyone else is nuts and of course their idea is the best. Then ignore. You have to throw them off your scent. They like a fresh kill beat to play dead and nonthreatening.[/quote]

True. One of my family members we used to vacation with would do this when conversations or accidents derailed thing. Just started asking him all about his powerful lucrative job or his beautiful new $1000 iPhone or some industry news article.  The narc fell for it every day and wouldn’t shut up!  Of course what he actually said would just repeat itself or be quite stale to anyone who reads a newspaper daily...

Everything to e narc suggested was DOA. It’s be total nonsense ideas, everyone would smile and say wow, then do nothing. And he would always do nothing. Like he expected everyone else to plan, buy, do everything for his nutjob thoughtless bad ideas. [/quote]

So true, and yes it 100% works! Seamlessly, without fail, every single time. They just need to feel glorified. They often don’t even need the execution of their nonsense. Learning this saved what little of my sanity remained post-narc exposure. It is extra work but better than the alternative crazy-making train they’re happy to welcome you aboard if you attempt sensibility, and it makes it a little easier to partition the kids.[/quote]

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