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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sometimes men (and women) purposely do things "wrong" so that they do not want to do them.(Hoping the other person will fix it and then, eventually do it) I suggest you make a list of tasks, then ask him which ones he would like to do (or which ones he detests the least), and have him do them and you do the others. My DH will not cook at all, no grilling, nothing. (If he reheats a pot roast I made, he considers that cooking). He hates paying bills & cleaning. So I do these, but he fixes anything that breaks, takes care of car/maintenance/lawn issues and investigates investment choices), for example. Also when you both work, something has to give. You may have to pay someone to do some tasks (DH hired and handles the landscaper) or you might have to just forego them (have groceries delivered instead of going to the supermarket). [/quote] Great. So he gets to pick his favorite chores and she gets whatever is left? No. He needs to shape up or get out. This is a huge lack of respect. OP said he can do his work perfectly - he just doesn’t care about the chores. [/quote]
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