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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in this place and if you were not a close friend I would not have been happy to have you in our family’s business. People can say it’s just like any other illness but the truth is it’s not.  We did not spread this news around and I would have been really upset that people I didn’t know well were chatting about it.  I only told some friends at the office, in part because I took FMLA leave.[/quote]

I’m sorry that you have experienced this, but the stigma that you are perpetuating put your loved one even more at risk. It is OK to except help from others when you have a person who has symptoms of an illness that can be deadly. Hiding And shame only makes it worse for everyone who suffers, and it cuts you off from support and help that could potentially be there for you as well.[/quote]

Eh—she’s free to tell whoever she wants, and I’ve actually encouraged her to share what she learned in the process with younger girls through various community service projects.   But I’m not going to be spreading around information about her medical condition.  And I’d be pissed at peoole in the neighborhood for taking about it.  She went through a year of DBT after hospitalization and is doing well.   But an important part of her recovery was having and developing an identity and a vision for herself outside of “depressed girl.”  
Frankly, if I had cancer I wouldn’t want a bunch of random people in the neighborhood talking about it either.  If I didn’t tell you, the. I probably don’t want you to know.  [/quote]

Please listen to this.  You weren't friends before, you didn't care before, so why do the fake caring now.  This family needs real friends.  You may have good intentions but usually when people do this kind of thing its more about their needs than the recipient.    This is why you try your best to be nice to all parents and not just your close group and teach your kid to be friends with everyone vs. being exclusive.[/quote]

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