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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As you all know, there are waiting lists for each daycare in this area. Therefore, providers don't need to waist their time with not a happy parents. Just move on and find what ever option you want, but don't cry how hard and intimidated it is. If you think that is hard, I can imagine what will be with you when your child will be in high school. Nobody said that raising kids it easy job. But OP asking if she ridiculous, I am guessing, she knows, she is.[/quote]

The OP is not ridiculous.  You sound like a bitter provider who is not very bright.[/quote]
ITA...waaay to defensive.  I also agree that the OP should start looking immediately.  From what she writes, this is what they deserve - for her to be looking to place her child somewhere else ASAP.  I wouldnt be happy picking up my daughter and noticing the things she mentioned - they indicate that the provider cannot do the basic things like wiping up messy noses, wearing bibs, and just keeping up in general.  I have had days where my daughter has a runny nose at the end of the afternoon that is all caked and a stain on her and she is sitting in her boppy - but these days are when I am suffering from a migraine, sleep deprived and really struggling....certainly not days I am proud of and they dont happen hardly ever thank goodness.  Usually when my DH has come home to this he whisks her away because he sees I am really in need of help.  If he saw that MOST days, he would be urging me talk about our options for childcare.  
I have my 20 mo. DD in preschool and when I pick her up I NEVER see these things she mentioned.  AND they have been doing artwork with paints, eating lunch all at a table, outside playing in the sandbox, etc.  Once when I came to pick her up she was in the restroom with one of the helpers because they realized she had sand in her pants and they were shaking it out together and giving her a full change even though she seemed fine.  you can tell how much they care about the kids very easily.  I have never had a negative gut feeling about any of it.  But if I did, I would exercise my right to look elsewhere.   
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