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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The most freeing thing you can do for everyone is not want your ILs approval. I don't and it is the best thing that I did. Here is the thing though - I am an emotional fool who will bend over backwards for people. If my ILs were smarter they would have treated me with kind words and I would have been their slave and killed myself just doing chores for them. But, since they were mean, I was put off and then switched off. Guess what? They have no power over my indifference. And while I am still very polite and dutiful and do what I am supposed to with grace and with a smile, I am not giving them all of me that I am capable of in a relationship. I feel sorry for them. They lost me. [/quote] Uh you are still "dutiful" and do what you "are supposed to" with a smile, so...no consequences at all for them, eh? You're a doormat.[/quote]
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