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Yes. But for me the point is moot - I cannot divorce now. Also, since my husband and son are always at loggerheads, I prefer to protect my children by being always there, instead of having shared custody (which my husband would want and get).[/quote]
It's not guaranteed that he will act around your son the way he acts now. My ex changed totally. He is always there for the kid, and is too busy putting me down. He needs DC to be on his side to do that. He is not mean to the kid and at 14, the kid simply tells him to stop. [/quote]

PP you replied to. I hear you, but I know he will. He does already when I travel. It's his desire to hyper control his environment because he struggles with general life management, and it degenerates into rage episode because as an Aspie, he sees things in black and white and either under or over reacts. Any remark anyone makes can turn into a rage fit because we're "sabotaging" him and "not supporting" him. And sometimes, people can say the rudest things and he's not going to react in any way. The problem is that you never know in advance what you're going to get.[/quote]

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