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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dude. You haven't even given birth yet! You have no idea how hard parenthood is. Don't push yourself. Plenty if people dream of big families then realize that's not a great idea after 1 child.[/quote]

NP- please stuff it[/quote]

Ehhhh...PP was more blunt than I would put it, but not necessarily too far off the mark.  I’m the DP who made the comment about pregnancy after IVF acting as a reboot for my reproductive system.  Initially, we had planned on me weaning DD1 at 6mo just so I could do an FET immediately after that.  Then we had a somewhat challenging newborn period, and I had an ugly bout of PPD and PPA (exacerbated by the years of infertility), and 6 months turned into a year, and then another year.  We ended up waiting until DD was 2 before doing another FET.
Good to have a plan in mind, OP...but sometimes reality isn’t what you expected.[/quote]
I'm sure OP is aware that she might change her mind. Telling her so is condescending and unproductive. Answer the a question she asked and MYOB. She wasn't looking for opinions on whether she will want more kids. [/quote]

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