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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm jealous of people who had normal childhoods with healthy parents.

I'm jealous of people who can have functional relationships with their parents as adults.

I'm jealous of people whose mother doesn't lie and gaslight to their faces and then posts about  God and Jesus all over Facebook to all her friends crowing about what a wonderful Christian she is.

Why wasn't I deserving of good parents?[/quote]

I could have written this myself. Does your mom call your children and badmouth you? Mine does even though she has not been in my life for over a decade.[/quote]

No, she just likes to paint[b] me and my siblings as terrible and horrible children[/b],  she's always, always the victim never responsible for anything.[/quote]
Well, at least she is consistent.
My mom never wanted me to exist ... in fact she told me she wanted to abort me but my dad (yes, she was married) convinced her not do it. 
She adores one of my brothers and thinks he can do no wrong no matter how many ridiculous things he's done in his life.
She's treated the youngest one just like a normal mother should. I suppose that's why he is very successful, both in his job and personal life.

When I lived in the same city as she did, she would call my co-workers and badmouth me. She did the same thing with my guys I dated ... I have no idea who she got their phone numbers. I had to move thousands of miles away from her. She was so furious about not knowing where I was that she called a friend and made up a story that the police was after me. To the outside world she was a very well educated woman living an upper middle class lifestyle with her husband and children and many believed her words about me being mentally disturbed.[/quote]

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