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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm not sure if your mom has BPD, but she's definitely emotionally immature. I highly recommend that you read these books (in this order): - Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay Gibson - Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents (Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy) by Lindsay Gibson These books will hopefully help you set boundaries. It's hard. She's going to take any boundaries you try to set as a total rejection. It also seems like your mom likes drama, and as a FTM you don't have time/energy for that. So stay calm! And if she wants threatens to cut you off, just say "ok" because we all know that she thrives on having relationships with everyone, you included. So she's not going to permanently go away. Or take responsibility for her actions. Stay strong![/quote]
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