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[quote=Anonymous]People say I should fix my relationship with my own mother, or fix the relationship between her and my brother. I get that it’s difficult for people to understand, this wouldn’t be good for anyone. She has a personality disorder, and is very abusive. I really wish no one would ever say to me again “But, she’s your mother! What is something happens to her? Won’t you feel guilty?” I have been conditioned since I was a small child to feel guilty and responsible for her choices and behavior. It took 20 years of therapy to finally get I don’t need to subject myself to abuse to assuage my own guilt. I see that OP has decided to stay out of it. For anyone else reading this thread, please just stay out of people’s relationships with their estranged parents. [/quote]
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