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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So what if your spouse does have a brief sexual fling and tells you? Is the marriage over or do you forget it and stay?[/quote] This is a tough one and I dont know what I would so. I think that a spouse who discloses a pure fling that you would otherwise not have found out about (or somehow affects my health) is just doing it bc they are looking for absolution and to me that is a greater flaw than the fact they they gave in to temptation in the first place. You make a mistake you need to own that guilt and use it for good - become a better spouse. You want absolution, go talk to a priest not lay the hurt at your spouse's feet and disrupt their otherwise happy life. I would be very very angry at my spouse if he came from and told me that he screwed some random person that he will never see again, not sure if I would leave but I would seriously consider it. [/quote]
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