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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Doesn’t seem like terrible advice. I particularly think pushing back in the arbitrary “men expect sex by the third date” bs is good. Women should have Alex when they feel comfortable doing so and when they’d like to and that’s often (mostly!) not by the third date. Many have been socialized to fake being good with it because they’re “chill.” [/quote] Good luck with that "make him wait" strategy[/quote] I didn't 'make anyone wait' as a strategy, but my husband and I didn't have sex for months. He could tell I was into him, physically and otherwise, so it wasn't really a problem. And we were young. Sex is sex, but it's also a proxy for "does she have a libido?" and "does she like me/is she invested in me?" and if you give him reasons to answer "yes" to both of those, it's different from if you're pulling away when he goes in for a kiss.[/quote]
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