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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP- I’d listen to your lawyer and even get another professional opinion. I would not listen to the screw him and leave reactionary women. Yes-divorce. But, timing will be everything. Do t show him your hand if you plan to delay...while you secretly plot your exit. And- yes—protect those finances now. I make $165k and married to somebody that makes $450k so I understand it would be a lifestyle change. I also “mommy tracked” with a job I could do from home. These decisions are made at the time for the good of the family and you should not be penalized for it. He sounds like a real ass bragging about how great his life is going to be. What a loser. Any chick banging him is a complete loser too. [/quote] Thank you for understanding that 120k standard of living and 440 combined standard of living is totally different. His child support won’t “make up” the difference for me. I had a good corporate job before “mommy tracking” to a smaller family business. While I managed our business successfully (in some years making way more than my husband on real estate), he was climbing up the corporate ladder. His mistress is his subordinate and a business partner - she’s making way more than me. I feel like he used me for childbearing and home making in my prime years, then screwed me just before his own retirement (he’s in mid 50s), to depart for even wealthier pastures. My retirement plans were build around my family! [/quote]
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