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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Absolutely not. What is wrong with you? Your au pair is not your child. Either give your parents YOUR bedroom or put them up in a hotel / air bnb. Just because she is an au pair does not mean you can ask her to give up her room. Would you ask the same of a live in nanny? [/quote] Live-in nanny here. I don’t mind being asked, provided that it’s a question that I can decline AND there’s something to sweeten it for me. Just kicking me out of my room for a week? Nope, no way. Especially not with someone else being in there, possibly inviting the kids in there. I hope that grandparents wouldn’t go through my things; I don’t trust curious children to be able to ignore temptation if they’re invited in.[/quote] Live in nanny is slightly different because they are typically paid more than an au pair and are less vulnerable to being exploited[/quote] I understand that. My point was that you can ask a live-in nanny, but you can’t ask an AP.[/quote]
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